Oh my July!

This week started quite different than expected but then again some of the best things don’t go as planned. 😉

Looked back on my planner and saw I missed milestones and deadlines here and there…so I decided to work on the small things I can to start getting stuff off my plate and projects off the ground. Nothing major to brag about but small victories tells us where finally getting things done. â˜ș

Sometimes, the smallest decisions to get going and get on with and of course, taking actions to execute these decisions shows us how to keep going farther and leads us to people who will help us in one way or another. That has always been true for me. The challenge is to stick up with the decision and to see plans through.

This week I’m grateful for getting a reward even before I started working. Also grateful for friends who are always giving encouragement and leading by example. The best way to express gratitude is to get things done and to make sure I get some results to show those people that the time they invested in me is not wasted.

Published a blog post for my passion project Bethy’s Library! Check it out here.

My friends, we are just getting started!

Time check!

As I write this post as quickly as I possibly can because I made a very different plan for this morning, I just felt that sharing this realization I had a few years ago and which I was vividly reminded of today
or last night rather. So I’ll go straight to the point here because time is of the essence.

Time.

You read that right: time.

The clichĂ© goes: Time is gold. One of my mentors upped the ante by saying, “Time is diamond.” Author, podcast host and thought leader Tim Ferriss once said that time is the new currency.

Well, I guess that happens when one realize the true value of time. According to Tony Robbins, getting the things we want in life and finding fulfilment is tied with the way we manage our time. While no one can really manage time, we can manage the things we use our time for.

You don’t need to make every hour count because it already does. Instead of counting the hours spent on whatever you’re doing, consider what you are getting for those hours lost. 

Time is like money, most of us wish we have more of it. The clincher is there are ways to make more money but there’s no way to make more time. Time is an important asset that cannot be recovered so wherever you invest it in, make sure you get not just satisfying and worthwhile returns.

Why? Because most of us are not always free to do what we want so we have to prioritize and make choices on what we do with our time. More often than not, our priorities require certain sacrifices like spending less time with family, friends, taking vacations or even reading a book you really want.

Once you understand the value of time and how you can use it to be more productive or do something you’re passionate about and get compensated for it, you’ll never look at your watch and wonder what to do the same way again.

Monday last week, I went somewhere and got stuck in traffic for a good 2 and a half hours. I was thinking of the things I could have done already if I wasn’t stuck there and the other things I could have accomplished if I didn’t have to spend the next 3 hours in traffic again on my way back.

The key in understanding the value of time is knowing how much it’s worth, not just in terms of compensated productive time, more importantly, the priceless moments we miss because we “hardly have time”.

So, if you can’t find time for your workout, starting that passion project or even building that dream business yet you know what’s trending on Twitter or attuned to the latest Kdrama (yes, a guilty fella here), it’s time for a time check. 😉

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You can't recycle wasted time

Checking my Instagram feed, I came across that quote. It made me stop what I was doing though it was in part, work-related. 

Today is a holiday, in honor of Eid al-Adha for our Muslim brothers, and while most of us are enjoying this 3rd long weekend in a row, I am working, planning the weeks ahead and just had an interview for a job. 

Yes, the grind includes Friday and the hustling never stops. So, what exactly interrupted my browsing? It’s when my mind began to put the pieces of today’s events together. 

That quote above was the clincher. 

I was working on an audio transcription earlier today and it said, “The 50s are the decade of great reward for those who did the work in the 30s and the 40s.” Listening, I can’t help but think it would be nice to reach my half life reaping the rewards of my hard work.
Past forward to the interview earlier this evening, “If you don’t mind me asking, how old are you?” The interviewer asked, the answer to which I had to pause for a moment and think…haha!

Maybe because I was reminded that I’ll be getting another year older in 91 days. “Thirty-four.” I finally managed to answer. 

I started working in my 20s, roughly a month before my 21st birthday and I’ve had a number of jobs and career changes since then but at this point in my life, I’m not sure I’ve done enough with my time to reap the rewards I desire in my 50s. 

It seems that I haven’t given the best of me in most of the things I’ve done so there’s guilt in reaping rewards and even fear that there might be none. 

Knowledge is the beginning of wisdom and action is the beginning of progress. Realizing, or more accurately, being reminded that our time is fleeting and how very limited it really is, inspires you to rethink how you’ve been using it and dispense it wisely starting now. â˜ș

So, how did your day go? 

Retracing Steps

I had a grab and go meeting this morning in Manila. Yes, it was quite far and inconvenient but it did bring me back to a very familiar route I haven’t taken in a while.

The flashback and memories were much needed and very much welcomed reminders. It let me reflect on the past decade as it allowed me to literally trace the steps I have taken the past 10 years on the very streets I’ve walked countless times.

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Around this time some 10 years ago, I broke out of my comfort zone following an advice from a senior colleague at work. I started looking for another job because at in my heart I knew I was up for the challenge. I felt stagnant and needed to move forward. Eventually, I ended up looking over that gorgeous view for the next 18 months.
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The meeting started and went earlier than expected so I had time to go church and take a more leisurely route back home. Decided to take a jeep to Remedios Church on Malate and the ride felt kinda surreal.
It reminded me of taking the same jeepney rides on late Sunday afternoons when class has ended and going to the office to catch up on work or get a head start. Then I end the day attending the 8pm mass in Remedios and walking along Manila Bay to the bus stop.

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More than the flashbacks, retracing those steps made me realize why, where, what and how I found the courage to take risks and change. To act when everything felt overwhelmingly scary and uncertain and to keep going even when it felt like I’ve given it everything I got and there’s nothing else left. It was a number of things at different times but at it’s core, it was and still is a never ending quest for something bigger. Something more challenging, growth, purpose, passion. It’s something that defines who we are, what we do and why we do the things we do.

It’s the deepest aspirations and one’s deepest reasons…reasons we may or may not be aware or are aware of yet not-so-comfortable talking about but still, it drives us.

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Today was a good day to find out the stuff I am made up and I absolutely feel great. Have faith in who you are and never give up on you dreams. Faith is believing in things only you can see! 😉

Business Shift

One dear friend have told me on several occasions that I think more of a business person now.

Our thinking is mostly influenced of where we are and what we do. In the end, these things makes us who we are. When we first met a few years back, we were both part of the civil service. She was with a military organization and I am with a financial institution. It was a position that demanded the fulfillment of a single important obligation: service. As a part of that world then, I was thinking and acting in light of the requisites of the job.

Fast forward to a few years later having worked in the private sector and ventured in the emerging industry of homebased online professionals, I became business-oriented. Entrepreneurial. Things like time and brand became the leverage by which I can make or break my future. It demanded a paradigm shift, in order for me to remain capable and competitive.

The change is not as big for me as it is for some. It’s just a difference in the norms and orientation. Public service is a must at all costs, even if it’s a losing proposition – simply because it is the mandate of government: to deliver services to all of its constituents. Business on the other hand requires not just viability but profitability simply because business exists to solve the clients’ problems but it can’t keep doing that if its funds were to dry up. Some thinks profit should come at all costs but there are an admirable few who believes businesses can be run in moral, ethical and legal ways. (And I aspire to be one of them.)

I’d like to think that this brief stint in business has done me good and taught me quite a few things.

While there has been a change in my perspective, I would like to believe that it’s a change for something better. After all, these things that we learn and know becomes part of our personal arsenal that we can bring to the table to help and serve those around us, specially those that needs in most. Each new skill acquired and increasing mastery of those that you already know is something that will benefit you and your organization, regardless of what kind of organization it is, period.

Treating your affairs in  a business-like manner shouldn’t be that bad just make sure that you run your business well – underpromise and overdeliver, at the very least be transparent and direct to the point and don’t set people’s expectations too high for you to meet because it is your face, your name and your brand on the line. Each encounter you make should be carefully taken. Each risk, calculated. Don’t act like you’ve got nothing to lose when you do. People are forgiving but severed ties and burned bridges can be irreparable, remember not to be so reckless.

Sir Richard Branson (methinks) said that business is not just something you do but it’s who you are. So be sure to do it with integrity.

Be mindful of these things and more importantly be mindful of your time. Don’t just spend it carelessly. Tim Ferriss wrote that time is the new currency. Therefore, always, always ask yourself how much your time is worth and how much of it can you afford to lose. If there’s not that plenty, then save and invest it. Save time pondering setbacks and rejections and use it to accomplish other things you need done. Better still, invest it in developing yourself – read books or schedule coaching time with a mentor.

By treating time as a very scarce commodity, certain aspects of your life might suffer because you can’t always go out and have fun whenever you please. Your days will be governed by your planner. You won’t own your time, it belongs to your commitments and this commitments are tied to your dreams, more importantly, tied to your name. This is a challenge that will require a huge discipline muscle. If you don’t have it yet, here, now is a perfectly good exercise to develop it.

Even if you already have one, that’s great. Remember that, it will require constant and conscious realignment of your priorities and purpose. You always have to check yourself, never growing too confident that you have made it. Complacency has historically been known to kill businesses and people’s reputations.

Keep in mind that no matter where you are, service is a choice you can freely make anytime, anywhere. However, the quality of service you can offer is often determined by how much of the constraints to serving you have eliminated.